I moved into an apartment and wasn't quite sure whether to go with silent stroke mesh heads or an electronic kit.
I've decided to go with the mesh heads and am really satisfied. The heads are maybe a bit bouncier than regular heads but overall the practice experience on these heads is very good.
You do hear the sound of the drums a bit but that's mainly due to the resonant head. If you want even less sound, you could just remove the resonant heads altogether.
Also, be careful because they do wear. Especially the bass drum head has slight indentations where the beater hits the head, but nothing out of the ordinary.